Is not a fun way to live at this age. Making mountains out of molehills is a ridiculous method of solving these problems.  Who’s right and who’s wrong is not a method of solving situations.  Spending time with someone when she has more attention then she has ever had compared to leaving her alone days on end waiting for something to happen is an unacceptable method of solving a solvable problem.  As long as two can’t see the answer, the problem will continue to affect us all.  Leaving control to one who doesn’t realize the discontent, bewilderment and angst caused is a futile waste of time and life for all involved.  Time is precious and dragging ones feet is just delaying the inevitable.  As an outsider which has always been my place, my opinion is neither wanted or required even though it affects me in every way.  I wait with no say until something is said that seems to make me the evil person.  Age has made me realize to stay away from, and not care about that which I have never been a welcomed part of.